Failing forward tells you how to look at life's setbacks and learn from your mistakes. If you haven't failed at anything, it means you haven't really taken a risk at anything. Failures are only as bad as you perceive them to be. Life is much better when you live, and try, and fail. Living requires failing every now and then. The basic steps to moving on and failing forward are:

• Realize there is one major difference between average people and achievers. The difference is in how they respond to failure.
• Learn a new definition of failure.
• Remove the "you" from failure. Don't take it personally.
• Take action and reduce your fear.
• Change your response to failure by accepting responsibility.
• Don't let failure from outside get inside you.
• Say good-bye to yesterday.
• Change yourself, and your world changes.
• Get over yourself and start giving yourself.
• Find the benefit in every bad experience.
• If at first you do succeed, try something harder.
• Learn from a bad experience and make it a good experience.
• Work on the weakness that weakens you.
• Understand there's not much difference between failure and success.
• Get up, get over it, get going.

Key ideas

What's the main difference between average people and people who achieve?

Regardless of family background, wealth, opportunities, morality, or hardships and trials, it is people's perception of and response to failures that sets achievers apart from the mediocre.

People are training for success when they should be training for failure. Disappointments are more prevalent and life is full of them. The question is not if you will have problems, but how you are going to deal with them.

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